She's faking a headache, but you are in the mood. Here's how you can get her to tune in'

It's Saturday evening. You're back home early. You want to make the most of the moment but she feels tired and refuses to take the initiative. What do you do?
You could either switch on the television, plonk yourself on the sofa, switch channels and sulk in silence, or get her in the mood. Wondering how? Here are some tips that I have seen at Ask Diana on Online Dating Guide/Expert to get her going.

Kiss her Hinges
You've got the obvious kiss spots covered. Now concentrate your efforts elsewhereon her knees, elbows, shoulders, ankles, neck and hip joints. They're rarely attended to with long caresses, but can be sensational.

Bear Fruit
Chocolate syrup and whipped cream get all the play in the movies. For a change, try fruits. To whip up the sexual appetite try fruits that you can rub onto the body such as soft mango or papaya. Get sticky, shower, repeat.

'..And Berries
Forget the tea-and-toast breakfast: bring hot chocolate (a sexual stimulant for women), raspberries and strawberries to bed. The berries will replenish the zinc you lose when you ejaculatefive milligrams, or a third of your daily requirement.

Try the No-Move Move
When you start foreplay, tell her you're not going to move on to another action until she tells you what to do next. This works physically and mentally: it encourages her to open up and tell you what she really wants. Now, your turn.

Give her a Massage
But make it interesting: in hot weather, try rolling a chilled cool drink can along the backs of her thighs. In cool weather, warm a towel in the microwave for 10 seconds and massage her with it. Seasons her belly with a little salt and slowly lick it off. (Add tequila to taste.)

Give her Chills
Nerve endings sense the cold more than mere touch, so you're expanding her range of response. Do this: chill a bunch of grapes for 20 minutes, and then trail a small sprig of them along her neck and thighs. Nibble away.

Rub her Down
For extra shower power, pour a couple of drops of shower gel into a spray bottle and mix it with water. Spray her, and then rub. She'll feel three different types of stimulationthe steady pelting of the shower, the soft spray of the soapy gel and the firm caresses of your hands. That's the kind of threesome that turns her on and gets the two of your going.