There is an extremely important part of body language that you must master if you want to become the ultimate seducer of women. This is what I call the art of "Body Intelligence." Body intelligence basically means the way you "position" your body relative to hers when you're interacting with a woman. You see, your body is always saying SOMETHING about your feelings towards the woman you're dealing withconstantly. And if you're not aware of it and controlling it at all times, you may be messing up your chances of seducing women successfully. You could be sending out the wrong signals without even knowing what you're doing. So here are the rules to follow: never fully face a woman on your initial approach. The reason for this is that by placing your body "at an angle" to hers, you would be "sub- communicating" (non verbally) that she hasn't yet won your trust, and that because you've just met her, you're not giving her your full approval or attention, YET. It also shows that you are a powerful male and that to keep your attention, she's going to have to work for it. Isn't that amazing? Your face could be smiling, your words could be playful and kind, yet the fact that your body is not fully turned towards her strikes deep at her subconscious and signals that she will have to do or say something to make you shift your position so that you turn to face her completely. When you do this properly in your real life interactions, you will literally see girls fight to "keep your attention" focused on them. And then, in the course of the conversation with the girl, you turn EVER SO SLIGHTLY towards her whenever she says something positive about you or the interaction and when she says something negative or which you don't like, you turn your body SLIGHTLY away from her. You see, what will be happening "subconsciously" in the girl's brain is that she is being sometimes "rewarded" by your increased body attention and other times being "punished" by shifting your body further away from her. And you just keep adjusting this all through the interaction. The extreme form of this is what we call a "total freeze out." This means you turning your back completely to a girl. A good example of this is, once when I was dancing at a clubthis one girl was dancing towards me at first and then started to play hard to get when I tried to dance with her. So I just turned my back to her, faced the opposite direction and carried on dancing on my own. The next thing I knew, she was struggling to get back in front of me and I kept turning my position but I made it look like it wasn't conscious on my part. Inside I was absolutely killing myself laughing because I knew exactly what I was doing and what effect it was having on her. So you can have a lot of fun with this stuff once you really get going and start to apply it in your interactions with women. The other amazing thing about this "Body Intelligence" is that you can use it in situations where you're trying to get physically intimate with a girl and she's not responding positively. All you have to do is stop what you're doing, smile at her and act as if nothing happened. Then start to "freeze her out" by gently turning away from her. Remember, the idea is not to draw attention to what you're doing. Keep smiling and chatting with her and you'll find that SHE will soon start struggling to get back your body's attention. And this time, she'll be much more likely to be open to your physical seduction. |
